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Mr. Spencer

I live in Salt Lake City and I am losing my wife to Mormonism, what can I do. Please help. I have read everything and told her everything, and I have plead with her. I have tried everything.

Her mom is Mormon and that's the problem. She won't listen to me anymore. I have taken her to Sandra Tanner that gets her out for about 3 months and then her mom puts guilt trips on her. I would love to talk to you soon before I lose her forever. Are you going to be in Utah soon for seminars? Let me know.

Thanks. Please help.


Sean

No, I'm sorry, I am not headed for Utah anytime soon.

Sean, your wife sounds like she has all the information she needs. I don't think you are going to "talk her out of" Mormonism. She has some decisions to make and we really don't have control over that. I don't know any of the details about your situation. For example, how old is she, was she active in the Mormon church as a child, etc. It sounds like she was a Mormon when you married her. She probably said she wasn't much interested in Mormonism then. But she is now! So often that happens.

Again, since I don't know the details, I am only guessing. But I am guessing that you now have entered a stage in which anything further you say will only exacerbate the situation. It may be time to simply live a godly life, demonstrate your commitment to Christ, and pray for her.

There is no magic bullet here. You have taken her to Sandra Tanner. Nobody knows more about Mormonism than Sandra. And I'm sure she handled her in a godly manner.

Now is a time for you to excercize faith, and probably to stop arguing. You may be in danger of going so far that you will lose her altogether. You will then obviously lose the opportunity to ever help her.

God will give you the strength to conduct yourself with grace, patience, and love.

I wish I could offer you more. However, I sense that further argumentation, at this point, is only going to exacerbate the situation.

Praying for you,

 

 

Jim

 

ps. I would be glad to add you to my mailing list if you think it is ok for literature to come to your home.

 

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I live in Salt Lake City and I am losing my wife to Mormonism, what can i do. Please help. I have read everything and told her everything, and plead. I have tried everything.

Her mom is Mormon and that's the problem. She wont listen to me anymore. I have taken her to Sandra Tanner that gets her out for about 3 months and then her mom puts guilt trips on her. I would love to talk to you soon before I lose her forever. Are you going to be in Utah soon for seminars? let me know.

Thanks. Please help.

Sean